Reset scope without drama

Protect standards and relationships with two clear options.

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Why this works

Naming scope choices turns a fight into a decision. Calm talk makes the trade‑off clear and fair.

Try these drills

Relaxation exhale

20 seconds
  1. Inhale for 4 seconds.
  2. Exhale for 6 to 8 seconds with soft lips.
  3. Repeat three times.

Outcome: Quickly calms your body.

Mechanism: A longer exhale turns on your body's brake pedal (parasympathetic system), which slows heart rate and eases tension.

Scripts

Scope or deadline reset

  • you: With the new scope, we can hit Friday if we drop X and Y. If we keep scope, next Wednesday is realistic. Which do you prefer?

Why this works: Naming trade‑offs makes the cost visible and invites a choice, so deadlines match reality without drama.

What to measure

  • time to decision
  • reversal rate
  • confidence post decision

FAQ

Will these scripts sound robotic?

They are templates. Use your own words. Simple beats clever.

What if the other person gets upset?

Return to a short summary, name the impact, and suggest the next step.

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